So, I have always kept lists of traits I’ve wanted in the ideal guy. None of my exes fit my lists — a lot of the traits on the lists below are there specifically because I got sick of them with other guys. Funnily enough, most of my exes thought that my expectations were too …
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Someone I follow on twitter wrote a blog about relationships. He has never been in one, so it was more about what kind of relationship he would want, and how he sees the idea of marriage. It can be read here. I’m on the opposite end of the spectrum. I’ve been in several relationships, and …
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So, I haven’t really been single. The longest period of time I was single was 2 months — other than that, I’ve been in long term relationships since I was 14. Fantastic. Really. You see, I was trying to find another guy immediately after the last one ended. I was literally with one guy from …
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Bryce and I have been faced with a difficult decision: where to live. He, of course, is from Australia. I’m from Portland, but moved to lovely Los Angeles for a change. I have never lived with my brothers, and can’t remember much from when my mom lived in Portland, so living with them and my …
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On Tuesday, October 11, at about 7:30 PM, I arrived at Los Angeles International Airport. I had been waiting for a month to leave — Bryce left America on September 1, and I hated being apart from him. I bought my ticket as soon as I could, then spent all my time preparing (packing, sorting …
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People have a lot of excuses to be homophobic. Obviously, it’s a fear (phobia, dur) but of what? Since I was really involved with my high school’s Gay-Straight Alliance, and I was born and raised in Portland, I have a lot of openly gay/trans/bi friends. I’ve never had a problem with it, because… I’ve always figured …
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I have been cheated on in every serious romantic relationship I’ve been in. The first guy I dated seriously was for three and a half years, and he was pretty much too nice to turn anyone down. He was also an idiot. Like, put-diesel-in-a-car-that-uses-gasoline-idiotic. Dropped-out-of-high-school-several-times-to-try-to-be-in-WWE-idiotic. Now he’s a druggie. As in… hard drugs. Meth, heroin, …
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Several people have asked me what sort of spiritual or religious beliefs I have, and it’s always been difficult for me to explain them. They don’t quite fit any specific belief system except for my own, and make sense more than anything else I’ve read or heard. There are no rules, firstly. I believe in …
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